Tuesday, May 12, 2009

My family vacation and a farewell to my first "nephew"

A few weeks and I’ve been bad about writing – my apologies.
Things are going in a whirlwind right now with everything I have piled on my plate. I’m not complaining, just rationalizing the reason for not keeping the blog updated.

Two weeks after Thom and I arrived back in the States, we were off to Mexico on a family vacation with my parents, my brother, his wife, and their little girl, Lucy.

The flights were pretty uneventful on the way there – just the way I like them! We had worked out an arrangement with our friend Nadine to have her drop us off at the airport so she could use Thom’s truck for the week while she did job hunting (unfortunately, the lay-off has hit close to home with some of my friends). An early flight puts us at the airport around 6:15 AM and we arrive in Puerto Vallarta around 4:00 on Saturday afternoon. Upon getting to the airport, we walk through the “Shark Tank” where all of these people are trying to get us to use their car service while others want us to go on their tours and perhaps people wanted us to buy a time share at their resort. Luckily, Todd (my brother) had provided us with information about the shark tanks that we knew to walk through and politely decline their offers. Into the car we go which was arranged for us through our time share we were going to visit…through some parts of town we thought were pretty run down and all of a sudden, we are at the hotel/resort. I’m amazed that we are there within 30 minutes and haven’t even really left the area that seemed to be run down, but our hotel…wow. What an entrance! The bell boy immediately grabs our suitcases, tells us to check in, and then he will help us along. We do all of that, get our room keys and we’re off to our week in the sun. We walk through part of the resort to room 3611…we open the door and see that there is wine and a fruit basket on the table with someone’s name typed there. Odd…but interesting. I continue on to see where I’m going to be staying for the week and walk to one of the bedrooms…I see a suit case with a name matching that on the table and a light goes on – “we aren’t in the right room!” We tell the bell boy who straightens it all out and on our way to room 4611 this time. The rest of the group is waiting for us on the balcony, already enjoying the cervezas from the stocked fridge in the room. That was interesting, and thankfully, the only flub that was made for the week.

Setting our stuff down in our room, taking a look around, and greeting everyone….it was time to grab a bite to eat. This resort was beautiful! 3 pools – one with a swim up bar, one with a water fall, and one for little kids. Too cool! The resort was right on the beach too, so we were bound to be relaxing by water all week long, and that’s just what we did. We did take one day to go to the town to see what it’s all about, see where we are, etc. So we hopped on public transportation (a bus) to find this place called “Old Town”. Well, we never did find it, but we did get off at the city part where the Boardwalk was. It was neat with lots of people doing sand sculptures and people milling about, but it wasn’t anything like Playa del Carmen – quaint with boutiques. No, this was more of a city where people live and work! Todd, Emily, and Lucy go their separate way back to the hotel while mom, dad, Thom, and I go on to see what else we can find in this city. The bus ride was not comfortable I’ll admit. On the way to the city, I was sitting in the back of the bus next to mom on one side, and a rotund little guy on the other side. This little guy was sleeping on the seat and this bus had no suspension, so whenever we went over a bump, you felt it…I felt him falling onto me too! Oh well… We didn’t stay in the city for very long – just long enough to buy a souvenir, let the boys try some tequila, then head out on the bus again…which took us to some parts of town where no one could really tell us how to get to a little part of town we were searching for, so we kept on riding the bus. Eventually, we made it back to the resort where we said we wouldn’t leave unless we had to. Trying every fruit flavor of daiquiri was accomplished and we enjoyed the food that was non-stop! We took one day to go "swim with the dolphins" which was a cash sucker upper for tourists. Luckily, this was included with our all inclusive, so it ended up being totally worth the experience! I got to dance with the dolphin, kiss him, make him do tricks, and learned about the dolphins and the trainers. We all walked past the $25 pictures that we could have purchased, so unfortunately, not too many to share on that! Throughtout the week, I did take in some yoga classes, a massage, and a pedicure as well. That was SO relaxing.

During our stay in Mexico, the “Swine Flu” – aka “H1N1” – was getting tons of coverage and we were getting tons of emails and phone calls from work, family, and friends. Needless to say, the hype around it blew it way out of proportion and we were all ok – especially since we did stay on the property of the resort. We did notice a decline in the number of people that were staying at the resort over the course of the week. We aren’t sure if it was the flu scare or if our timing was just that good that we picked a week when people weren’t on vacation. We are thinking it’s the latter. The week after Easter and the week before Cinco De Mayo --- the US travelers are probably done with travel and those from Mexico weren’t on vacation yet…and we were right…their Labor Day (May 1st) actually showed some activity at the resort and you could see that more people were coming to stay for the next week. Our timing was perfect!

The resort --- it was beautiful. Lots of great plants and animals, including resort cats, iguanas, and peacocks! Lucy was interested in all of them and had lots of questions to ask about them. Lucy, my 2 year old niece, is just amazing! I couldn’t believe all that she already knows including her alphabet, letters, colors, songs, animal sounds, etc. She educated me on a few things over the course of the week and I’m anxious to see how much she develops between now and the next time I get to see her! I loved the time I got to spend with her. Emily and Todd told us their plans for baby #2 that is in Emily’s tummy right now…due in September. I won’t reveal any of that…that is for them to do! I’ll just say that I’m happy to buy more pink stuff!

This family vacation was unlike any my family has ever taken together before. Growing up, we always did the hockey camps as our “vacation”. This was awesome! This time, we stayed put, spent time together, and just relaxed together. I loved it so much!!! Saying good-bye at the end of the week was really hard to do because I just enjoyed it so much with all 7 of us together. I am not too big on Puerto Vallarta as a vacation destination unless you are doing an all inclusive like we did. I can compare it to Playa del Carmen and Tullum and recommend those 2 places for vacation over PV. Don’t get me wrong, PV has a lot of neat aspects including “mountains” and a different feel to the beach, but if you want super fine, white sand, a spot to snorkel, cute shops…head to Playa. Even that said, I still think this was the best family vacation ever!

Reese was in good hands when we went on vacation at the Pampered Pooch Playground. This was her first time spending a week without us and without a family member, so this was a test for her. We received an email from the owners of the kennel that she was not eating and therefore, they were going to take her home with them that night to see if they could get her to eat and see if she would sleep well. Wow – they let her sleep in their bed, just as if she was at home! They even made her a celebrity at one of their events that they were attending where she was giving out autographs! Reese was exhausted for the next week after we got home – I think she got a lot of love and attention, but was still glad to have us back!

Up next? I’m training for my marathon on May 31st . Thom and I are going through our Marriage prep stuff with the church, and I’m also training for the Minnesota Border to Border race with my buddy Paul. Life has not slowed down for us since getting back. If anything, I feel like I have a ton more to get accomplished in the next few months and I am constantly on the go. I will keep writing more here…although it may be sporadic, I’ll do my best to keep everyone updated.

On a sad note, upon our return from Puerto Vallarta, my brother and sister in law lost their dog. Rufus was a great Basset hound and my first nephew. He will be missed dearly. Grab a tissue if you wish to read on the memorial my brother wrote about his fantastic dog and buddy – Rufus J. Powell.

I’ll miss him dearly!
XO,
KP

"Rufus is a very sweet boy who gets along with everyone."

That was the description on the Guardian Angel web site in the summer of 2000, when we were considering adopting a dog. We looked at his (pathetic) picture on the web site and fell in love.

We adopted Rufus on September 3, 2000, and he quickly became the center of our lives. "Mr. Man," "RJP" (yes, he had a middle initial, "J"), "Ruf," or whatever you called him, he was a hit wherever we took him. His distinct Mickey Mouse marking on top of his head and sweet disposition, his Hush Puppy good looks, and his trot/waddle drew people in. He loved the belly rubs that he received from any man, woman or child willing to give one. His loving personality even managed to win over our mothers, neither of whom were particularly fond of dogs.

Rufus was a stray in Peoria County, then became a big city dog in Chicago. He quickly adjusted to his leash and absolutely LOVED walks in the city, with the variety of scents and aromas that the city environment provided, despite the broken glass that would get stuck in his paws from time-to-time, and in the winter, putting up with the salt and snow. He would disappear beneath snow drifts as he bounded through a winter landscape, and emerge on the other side, tail wagging and nose pointing forward. "Charge ahead!" he seemed to say.

After we moved to Indiana, it took him a while to get used to the concept of a "backyard" with all the room he wanted to roam and sniff. Somehow, it wasn't the same without the leash. So, despite the custom cedar fence we put in for our doggy, we still took long walks to the park and through the neighborhood. Perhaps it was the attention he got on the walks that was the driving force - because he loved to lounge in his "sun spots" in the yard as much as anything.

We often wondered if Rufus was feline, not canine, because he seemed to have 9 lives. Maybe 10. He survived an attack by a pit bull (thanks to the wonderfully baggy skin around his neck), his ear was mauled by a black lab (and restored to near perfect condition by a terrific vet in Indianapolis), he survived innumerable terrifying thunderstorms, and he was tolerant of a new baby who has grown into an energetic toddler. Sadly, he was not able to survive the dreaded bloat. He survived surgery and seemed to be on the rebound, and we figured that his typical Rufus-style tenacity would bear him through yet another trauma. Unfortunately, it was too much for our little guy.

Rufus J. Powell left our lives today. He leaves us enriched by his love, soaked by his slobber, and saddened by his loss.

The last line on the discharge report from his vet, before he was readmitted for complications from surgery, were "Rufus is a very sweet boy."

Indeed.

We'll miss you little buddy.

Thursday, April 23, 2009

Where have I gone?!? I'm here! I'm HERE!

Sorry for the radio silence - it's been quite a bit of adjusting for us getting back into the swing of things in a 'routine' lifestyle, filing taxes, getting through 6 months of mail that was nicely stacked and collected by my 'future' sister in law, getting my car running again (after 6 months of neglect, it figured it should shut down I guess), trying to finalize some Wedding plans, getting ready for a Mexican vacation next week, etc. etc. So --- here is the last of the Swedish Adventure...BUT....I will continue to keep this blog going (and more regularly once again) so that those of you who are far and away in this country and others can keep up on the happenings of my life. I have quite a few exciting things coming up in the next year - a Mother's Day Breast Cancer Walk (in honor of and support of my Mom, my Grandma, and my great friend Christie), a marriage retreat with Thom, a marathon in May, a few triathlons, the MN Border to Border race in July, wedding prep and the like...and well, life!

Thanks for following the Swedish Adventures...stay tuned for more excitement from the MN KP :) Grab a beverage and read the adventures of our travel home....you would think that I looked like a terrorist or something!!!
XO,
me

Let’s see…when I last wrote, we were just done with our adventure around Europe…a small adventure, but a great adventure none the less!

When we got back to Stockholm, we made a point to see the things that we hadn’t yet seen and do the things we hadn’t done, but had on our “to do” list. At this point, all that was left was to go to Gondolen (a restaurant at the highest point in Sodermalm), see the small, old cottages in Sodermalm, and walk around Djurgården. So, we did.

We started out by getting our hair cut “one last time” while in Sweden, then going to get some last minute souveniers in Gamla Stan (Old Town). While we were walking through Old Town, Thom had not really seen all of the Royal Palace, so it was time to look around a bit, and our timing was perfect for Changing of the Guards (again – I “stumbled” upon it the first time too…just happened to be there at the time that they change…took me back to one of my first weeks in Sweden). We continued walking and seeing the small cabins in Sodermalm. We had read about these many times and so the curiosity was getting to us! It was interesting that there were many different streets that had these little old cabins – most without running water or electricity and still in the same form that they were oh so many years ago! It’s great to see that people can still live as simple as they once did in the past. That was quite a cool thing to see. We ended the night at a place called “Mosebacke” – a place with a great patio and apparently “THE” place to hang out when the weather is good! We would call that one a “favorite” place to hang out if we could spend the summer here.

Saturday we had a lot of time to spend walking around and doing the things we wanted to do, including seeing the island of Djurgården. We took a little adventure walk to get to the island, and once we got there, we were quite amazed with the place! We walked around the area that was at the bottom of “Skansen” where we went to the Christmas market and where the zoo is. The trails led us to places that were so beautiful and the sites were amazing! I did find a pedestal where a statue once was and decided to become a statue myself with Reese (see picture) We saw a map on the island and realized that we had only seen part of the island, but we continued onto Skeppsholmen and Kastelholmen (2 other islands) and saw some more great sites. Since I had to do a long run that weekend (for marathon training), I made a mental note to come back to Djurgården because we had only done ½ of the island. As we were walking, we decided to stop for a bite to eat at a cute little café on the water and take in the view. It was awesome and very relaxing! We eventually made our way back to the northern part of Sodermalm where we would have a chance to go to Gondolen – the restaurant with a view! We decided that we would just have a drink and see how the view was, then go back to our favorite, Mosebacke, one last time. The view was definitely great from Gondolen…but it was too nice to be inside, so one drink and back to Mosebacke we went to enjoy the sunshine! Everyone else seemed to have the same thought process, and it was funny to see the people move tables and chairs as the sun was setting and shadows being cast; everyone was moving tables and chairs into the sun to catch every last minute of it.

Easter Sunday, I took the time to run around the city one last time…18 miles in 2 hours and 45 minutes, I was able to see most of my favorite sites and take it all in. It was a great run, but at the same time, it was very sad for me to realize that this would be the last time I would see these sites for a while. I truly enjoyed my time in Sweden – all of my friends that I met began to feel like family. The public transit system was engrained in my head and I could tell anyone which color line to take to get to their destination, or perhaps even what time a bus might be coming. Thom and I had our favorite “godis” (goodies/candy), we had our favorite beers, we had our favorite places to go, shops to shop at, and we felt at home. I think I’m Swedish by heritage…I think my parents missed that part when they tried to educate me on where our roots are set!!! The only part that I have yet to learn more of is the language, and I was beginning to get to the point where I could completely understand what people were saying, but I couldn’t pick the words to say the right things. Recognition of words, however, was easy for me now…I just hope I don’t lose that. Some day, I do hope I can return and stay forever.

Which leads me into our trip home…
We get everything packed up in the apartment, and thank goodness for our friends Robert and Elin who came over to see us on Sunday night one last time…and we sent them home with some things to deliver to my host family. It was a great thing we did because their car was packed to the top with things and if we had waited to pack those things (one box of things with a microwave, coffee maker, etc., a mattress, and 2 cushions), Thom and I would never have made it to the airport on Monday morning with our things!!! That night, Thom and I slept on the cushions from the couch…literally. He slept on the part that would be the “Seat” of the couch while I slept on the pillows that made up the “back” of the couch. The sleep was not the best quality, but it was good enough I guess. Coach Oscar picked us up at 7:30 on Monday morning and we were off to the airport. Arrival at the airport, we check our bags (2 for each of us) and we head off to take Reese to the “Special” baggage. They asked us to produce a receipt for the transit of Reese…um…well, I hadn’t printed anything, and they checked her in at the front counter…why do we need a receipt?? They asked how much we had paid for her! Um…well, I didn’t have the receipt in front of me, and we actually had one of our friends in the Bandy world help us out with the tickets, so I didn’t have a receipt. Thank goodness for kind souls in Sweden…they let her go onto the plane without that pesky receipt being shown!! Reese is checked in, sedative in tummy…next stop is for us to get through security! Thom is ahead of me and goes through one line and I go through another. I must have had a woman checking me that was having a bad day! She scolds me for leaving “7 days after your residence permit has expired!! This is trouble!!” I stood there thinking to myself “Ok, so keep me here? Really? DARN!” I offered to stay in Sweden if that would make it easier for her…I don’t think she liked that response very much because she proceeded with “I’ll have to report you and you will have problems!” I remained calm and asked “What problems…I’m trying to go back to the States now…?” She responded that it might be difficult to get a residence permit there if I tried again. BECAUSE OF ONE WEEK!?? I didn’t argue as Thom’s permit expired the same day and he had already made it through the line and was on his way…they apparently didn’t have the same issue with his passport check person. Oh well…she let me through, and my heart will be broken if they will not let me come back in for 7 days over my residence permit; ironic that you can stay as a “visitor” for 3 months without a residence permit…hmph! As we start making our way to the gate, we see the “Tax Free” counter where we can claim our 25% for “exporting” of goods that we have purchased…that is if you purchase them within 3 months of leaving the country. That wiped out more than 75% of my purchases. Oh well…we got a whopping $8 USD back! Ha ha! We were lucky on that because they actually require you to show the goods you are taking home. Oops – we already checked our baggage!!! Again, thanks to the trusting souls in Sweden! We make our way to our gate where they do another check of your passport and ticket, and do the random pat down of people. Guess who got selected for the pat down --- yep – yours truly! First they want a receipt that I don’t have, then they want to hassle me for being 7 days past my residence permit, then they want the purchased goods (which took up ½ of a suit case as it was), then they have to pat me down?!? I must look like trouble! Finally sitting at the gate, because they didn’t have anything to stop me for with the pat down and search through my personal belongings (surprise!), we are now ready to board the plane because we are tired and tired of the hassle of traveling – not because we want to leave Sweden!

The flight was uneventful, just the way I like them. There was a little boy, Max, who was 7 months old and barely made a fuss, and I kept entertaining him to ensure that!!! I did not want to listen to a crying baby!!! Arrival in Chicago and off to get Reese – first priority on our list!! We get her, the customs folks do their inspection, and away we go to get our bags to re-check them. We go to get our bags and the TSA agent tells us we can “relieve” the dog outside – “Through those glass doors, then come back in and you can put her in her cage after they inspect it.” Thom goes with Reese, I go with the cage. 10 minutes pass, so I figure I’ll be proactive and figure out which gate we are departing from when the TSA agent tells me that someone is trying to get my attention outside…I look and there is Thom (no surprise) and he’s flailing his arms, but I can’t hear what he’s saying beyond the glass door. I step out there and then I realize he was saying “Don’t come out here, but I need to get back in and they won’t let me!” I realized that as I was stepping through, then I tried to double back and they wouldn’t let me --- now all 3 of us were outside of the glass doors and Reese’s cage was inside. Luckily, the TSA agent that sent me out, came out to see what was going on, apologized for not telling me to NOT go out there, and then she helped us by getting her supervisor. Whew! Thom had been arguing with the Security person to let him back in and she wasn’t budging, but the TSA supervisor was willing to talk to the security person and let us back in. What fun!? Welcome back to the USA! Finally, Reese is checked back in, we are off to the gate and…yes…a DELAY! Great! 2 hours…could be more, etc. We were delayed 3 hours and finally got home around 7:30. We were happy to be done with the travels, but we still miss Sweden.

“Why?” you might ask…well, it’s a lot of things. The people are so kind. The language is fun to learn. The way of living is healthier. The city is much more accessible via public transit so you can live without a car. It just FEELS like I fit in there so easily. There really is no way to explain how it feels or why it feels so right, it just does. I will be back there some day, and hopefully we can live there again! I'll keep working on it as long as Thom is still willing to be by my side as we make the adventure, and based on his experiences, I think he will.
We will miss our Swedish adventures...for a while...then we will be back.
Puss och Kram to our Swedish "Family",
Kristy, Thom, and Reese
more pictures of the last few sights in Sweden can be seen here: http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=76738&id=566826522&l=30f9b994b0

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

4 capitals - Stockholm to Helsinki Finland to Tallinn Estonia to Riga Latvia

Why this schedule for our “vacation”?
We have both always wanted to go see Helsinki. We were told that “if you take the boat to Helsinki, you might as well take another boat to see Tallinn in Estonia”, and I have a friend who plays hockey for the Latvian national team so I thought that it would be a good time to see her and see where her heritage comes from.

We hopped on the boat to Helsinki and as we got into the waters around Sweden, we were amazed! The Archipelago is BEAUTIFUL! I cannot put into words the peacefulness of the area, the beauty of the nature, and all of the places we commented “it’d be awesome to have a cabin there!”. Should Thom and I be fortunate enough to come back to Sweden, we will make sure to come back during the time where we might get to enjoy these waters. Unfortunately this trip was during the winter months where most boats were not setting onto the water (and who would really want to stand outside in the cold like that??), so we didn’t get to enjoy these sites until we were on a covered ship behind some windows so we could stay warm.

It’s amazing how one can have a perception of a city before they even get there and then have images in their head replaced by the reality!

I’d always wanted to go to Helsinki since I travelled to Lappeenranta, Finland in 2004 for the World Championships in Bandy. The city, from what I can remember, was very quaint, old, and cute…so, I thought that Helsinki would be much the same! I was a bit off…the city is pretty modern now, and full of…cement! I was told by a friend who is from Finland that Helsinki is very “grey”…and I was surprised to see that it actually was! Don’t get me wrong – the city does have character and has some very neat buildings and other sites that make it full of it’s own character. Being situated on the water with the water shaping the lines of the city, the streets weren’t always the easiest to follow and there were many different ‘sub areas’ that were shaped. There was the area of Senate Square with some history apparent. Then there was the area of the beach, the bay where people must hang out in the summer, the political (embassies) area, shopping, and “city” areas. We were fortunate that I have a friend there, Jarmo, who was an exchange student from when I was a freshman in high school. Jarmo met us a couple of hours after we arrived in the city and took us on a car tour…definitely the way to experience the sites I’d say. Because of the waterfront carving the city and making it feel more spread out, going by car was a great idea. The only thing that I think would have been fun to see that we didn’t was this one island that was apparently like a “fort” with a wall around it. I guess we have left something for us to see if we can ever make it back. He took us around the outskirts of the city first so we could see how it is kind of curvy, then we went to the football field where the local Helsinki football team plays. We were fortunate that the team was practicing, so we were able to watch a little bit of that…then, he called a friend of his who works with the team and we were given a small tour of the facility! How cool! We were able to see a lounge for the visiting team (or corporate party area), as well as a suite for watching the game. I loved the fact that they had a Finnish Sauna IN the suite where you could watch the game! He then took us to the Olympic Stadium from 1952 and up to the top of the tower there! (Which is to be noted that it was on “The Amazing Race” when they had to repel down the wall of the tower!). GREAT place to see the lay of the land of the city. He took us many places including where a statue has been made in tribute to a famous composer. I thought it was so cool - when the wind blows, these different pipes make different noises and it becomes musical!! He gave us a recommendation for dinner and it was fantastic! We also got to see "Rock Church" where there is a rock in the center of the city and someone decided to carve into it and make it a church! crazy! We ate reindeer (poor Rudolph – although, the waitress assured me that it was NOT Rudolph!) and it was delicious! The story of Santa Claus in Finland is that he comes from Lapland, so it was a bit ironic that we ate Reindeer at a restaurant called “Lappi” where the workers dressed in traditional Lapland clothing.

Up early the next morning to catch the boat to Tallinn Estonia. Both Thom and I had no real expectations of the city. We were thinking that it would be a bit run down and almost poor. Wow – it was really amazing! A 2.5 hour boat ride from Helsinki and we were in a different era and different town. The City itself was pretty modern, but the “Old Town” was very interesting – amazing to me. I could have taken thousands of pictures of old buildings and neat structures!! I felt like we were walking in the old cobblestone roads of the movie Beauty and the Beast. My souvenier score of the trip to Estonia were these “Boiled wool” slippers…I had my eyes on some from Stockholm for a LONG time (since my first visit to Stockholm in February of 2008), but they were $70! I couldn’t believe that nor could I justify that. So you can imagine my delight and surprise when I found some for just $20 USD! I grabbed those and that was a great surprise to me. We decided to sit in the square and take in the town a little more and a beer. That was a fun time and we got to see a Borat impersonator. That was funny – imagine the scene in the movie where Borat is in his “swim suit” – yeah, this guy was running around in his swim suit like that. Apparently, it was a group of guys from Norway on a Bachelor party, and his wife to be wanted him to do this little gig. Quite funny. Thom and I decided that it was not in my character to “make” him do it, nor would he do it, but it was quite funny and disturbing all at once. We headed back to the hotel room for an early night and we were quite tired from all of the walking we had done in the past couple of days. Our bus to Riga would leave the station at 7:00 in the morning, so we also thought it would be a good idea to turn in a bit early.

The bus ride was somewhat of an adventure with the bus driver in somewhat of a hurry apparently. We get to the bus station to check in with the driver who was a bit gruff with the whole check in process – perhaps a language barrier – perhaps not as we were not the only ones he was gruff with. We get onto the bus, find our seats (apparently the numbering scheme on the tickets doesn’t really matter), and settle in for the journey. This bus route took us on some roads that reminded us of Northern Minnesota where you could see through some trees to the Sea off to the side with a beach. Ok – so in Minnesota, that would be a lake and not the sea…but the same atmosphere anyway. Very woodsy and peaceful…unless you looked at the road we were traveling on. Sitting in the first seat behind the driver, we had this vantage point; perhaps not always a good idea. We could see that he would get close to the vehicle in front of us – a car, a truck, or a Semi – and he would make the pass. There could be a car, bus, semi, etc coming towards us in the other lane, but that didn’t seem to phase the driver; he had faith that they would move over on to their shoulder for him to get by the obstacle in our way…luckily, they did! Safely we arrived in Riga and the adventure continues.

Sarma had provided very detailed and excellent directions for us to get from the bus station to her hockey game, including some walking, some tram riding, and some exploring in a sense. We had an idea that there would be some kind of language barrier, but we didn’t realize how much of a language barrier until we tried to buy a ticket for the tram. We get to the kiosk where we should be able to buy a tram ticket just a few minutes before the tram arrives. There were a bunch of little old ladies that were ahead of us trying to buy something and having discussions with the kiosk clerk. The tram is arriving behind us and all of a sudden, it isn’t important to these little old ladies what they were after to begin with and they scurry to the tram, leaving us standing there hoping to be able to buy our tram ticket. I use the words that Sarma had written to me to try and buy some tickets where the clerk shoos us away as if to tell us that we can buy the tickets elsewhere and just to go. So we get on the tram. We see people trying to buy tickets from the driver, so I make the attempt again. The driver also shoos me away and shows me what looks like a token – meaning I must need a token to get the tickets. Sarma had told us that the “tram police” might hop on board and ask to see a ticket, so Thom and I started to get a bit nervous. We hop off at the next stop where we see the ticket selling store and attempt to buy a ticket again. Luckily, the gentleman behind the counter spoke a little bit of English and was able to help us out. With our tickets in hand we waited for the next tram to come and we hop on. Good thing we had the tickets because at the next stop, the tram police hop onto the tram, checking for tickets. Whew! We are minding our own business when our tram makes a stop a bit head of the next marked stop and we see 2 young guys sprinting around the street corner while a guy hops off of our tram and runs smack into one of the sprinters. As the tram sits there, we watch and see that something must be going down. We think that the guy on our tram was an undercover cop going to the spot where these 2 ‘kids’ would be running. As we watch the other ‘citizen’ (maybe under cover cop) holding and using pressure point tactics on one of the guys, the police arrive in their van and haul these two guys off. What the??? Ok, this city is apparently a bit rough! We finally make it to the hockey game (after walking around the whole arena a bit trying to figure out where we were to enter the building as all of the doors were chained shut), and feel a bit of relief and safety in the walls of the arena. Sarma had a pretty good game from what we could see, and we were anxious to have our tour guide by our side!!! We made our way to Riga’s “Old Town” where we saw a different style of Old Town from Tallinn. This Old Town was a bit more worn down and showed signs of the war --- including some old cannon balls still in the side of a tower!! There are monuments there that are symbols of Freedom…it was a different feel based on the language as well – much more Russian was heard and obviously Latvian. Thank goodness we had Sarma there to help us!!! The city itself is full of old buildings that seem to be crumbling, and the streets are very dusty and dirty. We did get to go to the top of the church tower to see the city from the top --- we’ve done that in the previous 2 cities, so we had to do it here too! Sarma took us around to an area that was a bit “nicer” with the homes and they were individual houses instead of the apartment buildings. The houses were nice and definitely different than the architecture that I’m used to. We walked through an old cemetery too and saw many German names and various dates – many back to the 1800s! I can say that aside from the history in Riga, there is really good beer there! We went out for a beer at a bar just down the street from Sarma’s apartment and she asked “do you want a big or a small”…well, we said “Big”, thinking that it was going to be just a bit more than a pint….um, the beers were the size of my head! Seriously! I loved it! The costs in Riga were MUCH less than anywhere else on the trip, including Stockholm or even back in the States. Back onto the boat to head Holm and there were many more loud people on this boat.

While we really enjoyed our trip and all of the different sites, the history that we were exposed to, and the good company, we realized how much we really do love Stockholm.

We are going to miss this place we have called home for 6 months. I’m very glad to have these experiences, and cannot wait to do this again and get some different and new experiences. *sigh* Now, I must catch my breath before we make the adventure back to the US from this lovely land of Sweden. Perhaps I will blog once I get on the other side of the water…just because I’ve come to enjoy the written memories as much as living them the first time.

Thank you to all of my Swedish family and friends. You have made our time here most enjoyable. You will all be missed greatly.

For those of you back in the US --- we will arrive on the 13th, but we will be heading out for a family vacation shortly thereafter. I think we will see you then!Realizing where I feel at home – here in Sweden – has been a great adventure.Sad and excited to return to the States,
Kristy
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Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Perhaps the hardest blog to compose....

This is a tough blog to write as I didn't think I'd be writing some of these things --- *sigh* --- AIK made it to the final match and for the regular season we were undefeated. I was pretty confident that the women of the AIK bandy team were well on their way to a repeat of winning and defending the SM Guld status. I was wrong...and I am very saddened to write that. I am still in a bit of shock and disappointment. The IFK girls came out striking hard with high pressure on our team, and it showed that they were hungry. One friend of mine said “you could tell that your team had everything to lose and they had everything to gain”. I do think that’s how our team played…unfortunately. However, on the up side, it is said to be “good for Swedish Bandy” to have another team win the gold! It shows that you can play all year and have a great season, but that doesn’t mean that you can win “it all”. It means that although we had an awesome chemistry and great team, we too are human. “What went wrong?” one might ask. I honestly don’t know. Not to discredit the girls of IFK, but the goals they scored were from outside of the penalty area…where goals are rarely scored from. Granted, we shouldn’t have given them the shots to score from there in the first place. We had many chances ourselves to score, but we missed the net. AIK and IFK both played a hard fought match and both teams put their hearts into it…but what went wrong? I have no answers. Maybe the question is more for IFK and “what went right?”

I did get to skate for a whole minute when one of our half backs lost an edge (after going flying over the boards and landing on cement!), and one of our midfielders also lost an edge, but that was all of the ice time I got to see. I cannot complain about the little bit of ice time that I saw that particular day. The game was brutal and I even saw our strongest player get flipped as she took a knee to knee impact; I would have lost my knee in that collision – I’m glad it wasn’t me, and I’m glad that our player is OK. I played a lot of bandy this season, so sure, while I wanted to take to the ice during that final match, I realize as well that I’m an American bandy player that has only been playing bandy for 4 years and I played a whole lotta bandy this winter. Coming into this season, I was thinking I’d get to skate every other game or so if I was lucky. The team did originally have about 20 people that were interested in playing, and we ended up with 16 for the whole season; of the 20, there were an additional 2 midfielders that I could have been competing for ice time with – I’m a very fortunate person to have had as much ice time as I did. I am also very thankful that I was given the chance to be on the bench during that final match. You see, we have had to sit at least 2 people every game this year, meaning that they don’t even get to take to the bench in their bandy gear during the games, rather they sit in the stands and cheer on the team. Yes, I’m very lucky to have even been in the jersey that day, and it’s an experience I will never forget. The anticipation, the excitement of getting ready, going through warm ups, taking to the ice, the cameras on the players, the buzz going through the locker room…it’s something that I cannot put into words. The silence that filled the locker room at the end of the game was disturbing; this was something we had been playing for all season and to have it taken away from us…that was not how we wanted the season to end. I do have to say, that it builds character. It makes me hunger to come back even more and play another season with a team that can win the gold just to see what it’s like to be on “that” end of the game. I think AIK will come back with a vengeance and take it to whomever they face next year and win it all back! I know that they can!!! I hope to be able to return to Sweden and play some time in the very near future – I’ve only become hungrier.

I have to admit that the after party was just as crazy even though I was not on the SM Gold team. I will leave it at that…it was a blast and I had a great time…the next day was not as forgiving and I partied like I had won the gold because in my heart and in my mind, I have had a very golden season here playing bandy with a great group of people all of whom I will miss when we head back to the States.

So, the questions I’ve been getting are “what will the team do now? Will you continue to train? What are the other team mates like? Do they have families? How can you give up every weekend to play like that?” Let me take them one at a time:
I am still training, just not on the ice. We ‘pulled the plug’ on the cooling unit for the ice the Wednesday night before we played in the Finals, so I won’t be “skating training” while I’m here. That last practice was quite memorable in my mind: I was on the ice as one of our team managers turned it off and I felt very sad. Thom had the chance to take to the ice before our team did that night and he sat there just listening to the silence of the night and the shifting of the ice as it was fighting to stay frozen on that warm evening. I stayed out there after everyone had gone off, took a lap around slowly taking in the view of the snow capped trees as the ice is set off in the woods. I got to center ice and had a few tears slide down my cheeks, and then I skated off. So sad to realize that it was my last bandy training on my home ice.

Instead, the training I will do now is more for my “off season” sports such as marathons and triathlons. One of the girls on the team teaches classes at a local gym, so I went to a spinning class on Monday (after we played the final on Saturday), and will attend on Wednesday as well. My running training will start up in full force after this weekend as our team is going to a “Ski Weekend” together. From what I understand, there is very little skiing and more socialization than anything…I intend to do both in moderation.

The team will take a bit of a physical break (after we do our skiing/social weekend together), and then they will get back into their training in May. Really --- they start training for their bandy season in May and it doesn’t start until November!! I will plan to follow their training plan this summer as well so I may be in the same top physical condition as them when I make my return  (Ok, I will do the training, and am going to work on figuring out how we can come back!)

The team mates – they are all in school or working full time. When I say “School” there is one girl who is still in “high school” and the rest are at University. They are all very dedicated to bandy and they have no problems giving up their personal time to train and skate like they do. Everyone’s family members and significant others realize the commitment that is required of them and they just understand it. The players on the team --- none of them are moms this year (although 2 are pregnant now!), but in the past, there were a few that were moms. Like I said, the family just realizes that the commitment is in the players blood, and they work together to make it happen.

What will Thom and I do now?
Well, this coming weekend as I’ve already mentioned is a skiing weekend/party weekend for the team. Thom will hang at home and go out with the guys (which is good as I’m sure he’s been dying for some “guy time”). After that, we have planned a small Euro Trip to Helsinki, Tallinn, and Riga. We have a day scheduled in each of the cities, and in Riga we will meet with my friend Sarma so she can show us around. After that long weekend of travel, we will come back to Sweden to see how they celebrate Easter and then (tears filling my eyes), we fly back home.

We will only be home for a couple of weeks (long enough for me to file taxes, say hello to those in Minneapolis), then we fly out for a family vacation with my side of the family. VERY excited to see all of them, especially my mom and my little niece (who I understand speaks in full sentences now and she’s just 2!!!!!!! Glad I’ll have someone to talk to on the vacation, HA HA!)

I just can’t believe that we are down to our last 3 weekends here and that’s it. We’re done in Sweden, we resume life back in the States, and I wish that I could come back and do it all over again. We’ve had a great adventure here and the only thing I would do differently is schedule the trip to be longer so we could see Sweden in the summer months as well.

Oh – and I did win the Bjorn Borg underwear competition (thanks everyone!) I came out with 15 new pairs of underwear and 3 new bras! Quite the collection!!! I will know if I am a finalist in the Adidas competition on March 30th, but I’m still in the running for the Nike competition! Please make sure to vote each day! Thanks to all of you who have been, I appreciate it.

Keep on voting for me on the Nike one!!!
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I’m sure to have a few more blog posts before we head back to the states…I just can’t believe this was my wrap up of the bandy season. Where did the time go?

For the love of the game,
KP

Sunday, March 15, 2009

I will shed a few tears...of joy and of sadness...

I can’t believe it – it’s the last official week of the bandy season here in Sweden! ?! ?!??!? Fy Fan! I’m sad! I wish that this season could continue, and at the same time I wish spring would finally get here. If I could have the best of both worlds, I’d have the seasons outside but have an indoor bandy field! Some day, when I win the lottery, I will build an indoor bandy field and play year round. Now THAT is a dream I will have to work at to achieve.

This past weekend, we faced VAIK for the 2nd match of the Semi-Finals. We had ice time reserved on Sunday in case we needed game 3 (as it was a best of 3 series), but we also were prepared that we would win on Saturday and therefore have practice on Sunday instead of another match. Yes, we had practice on Sunday. With a great match played by the AIK dambandy spelar (women’s bandy players), we won the match 5-2. I won’t elaborate on the play, I will just say that “dang that was great bandy!” Unfortunately, I was unable to play in the match as it’s fair to give everyone a chance. I sure do hope I will skate on Saturday March 21st as we are IN for the FINAL match against Nassjo. These two teams have faced eachother last year for the series final as well, so this is one that will be a hard fought match. We did a great exercise with the team this week – the task was to positively say something about each of our teammates, then we were given a sheet of paper that had all of those positive thoughts from the team members on it. My level of determination and passion for the sport has been seen by others on the team, and I have been called “The Fighting Tiger”. That’s very flattering, and I hope I get to show that spirit in one more match this season.

This week we have spent every day on the ice, so I don’t have much of an update other than that. Thom and I didn’t do any exploring, just work, to the bandy field, back home (and I don’t mind!). This coming week will be more of the same, and for that I am quite excited honestly. We were told in our Sunday morning practice that this week before the Final will be dedicated to bandy, and I couldn’t agree more! Training all of the usual days this week, however, we will be going to Uppsala for the game on Saturday. Uppsala is about an hour north of Stockholm, so we will actually make the journey there on Friday so we can get to the field, take in a skate, then relax for the evening with visions of bandy goals dancing in our heads. The excitement on the team is buzzing with high energy and the girls are all so pumped. I’m anxious, excited, and yet at the same time, sad. I am sad because the “Final” means that my time here to play bandy is coming to an end. I’m so very grateful for the fun and educational season I’ve had, but I wonder “couldn’t it be a bit longer??” I have so much yet to learn, so much to improve upon, and so much more to experience and do on the ice. Please? Just a few more months?!? Ok…yes, I realize that the seasons change, and the iced bandy fields will turn to green fields for futbol and the bandy klubban will be exchanged for cleats by many. I will turn in the skates for my running shoes and begin more training for my marathon coming up on May 31st --- ironically, Minneapolis and Stockholm are holding their marathons on the same day. I think I should take part in the Stockholm marathon instead of Minneapolis . Since I did not play on Saturday, Thom and I decided to try this bar “Peppar” that we have seen every day as we make our way to and from the subway station. Boy, am I glad we did!!! I had a fajita (granted, not served sizzling hot like in the US), and it tasted wonderful! We had a beer there, then decided to hit a few places on the way back home and try the atmosphere (beer) at each of them. I had a blast! We both enjoyed the night very much and had a great time. On Saturday morning, I decided I would turn to my marathon training for some exercise and take in some more of the glorious views of the Swedish terrain. I ran around Haga park and then decided to continue my run to the bandy field. I was surprised that it only took me 30 minutes to run there – it takes most of our bus and/or train rides 45 minutes! Once I made it to the bandy field, I continued through Bergsharma and the surrounding areas – the areas that we have been running as a team during the dark, so I hadn’t seen most of the sights. I will have to take Thom and Reese back there with my camera to capture some of the cool things I saw. It was simply beautiful and definitely reminded me of why I was running that day.

So there won’t be much of an update this week from me as I’ll be doing what I said I would – focusing my energy towards the bandy training this week. I will, however, post the results of the final match, and I do anticipate posting a picture of me with a golden helmet very soon. If you wish to watch the match, it will be televised on “SVT” – I’m not sure which channel (1, 4, or 24), but you should be able to find it if you want to watch it through the “svenskbandy.se” web site. Email me if you are interested and I can do some searching. We will play at 11:45 on Saturday (5:45 am CST for those of you back home  ). In my upcoming blogs, I will try to reflect back upon some of the highlights of being here. I simply cannot put into words the emotions I have started to feel this week, knowing that the bandy season is coming to an end for the year, knowing we will be returning to the States, and all of the great adventures we have had here. There simply are no words to really explain the experience, but I will try. This week, I anticipate the tears of joy and sorrow will flow; I will be so excited to be a part of the SM Guld chant and participate in the game, but I will be very sad to have the last 90 minutes of the season ticking off of the clock...a happy and sad day all at once.

Thanks to everyone who has been voting daily for the Adidas and Nike contests. The Adidas one only runs for one more week so keep your votes rolling in! The Nike one will continue for about 40 more days, but keep those votes going!!!

Thursday, March 12, 2009

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Sunday, March 8, 2009

2 contests in addition to the Bandy contest


Ok, time is really getting away from me and I apologize. Since our last game...we have done quite a bit. We had the weekend "off" the last weekend of February, and so after I posted my last blog, we went on a walk to see if we could find this "old wooden house that the Queen lived in in the 1800's". We thought it would be close...and we had read that it was a "major tourist attraction" so we figured it would be easy to spot. Ha! Well, it wasn't easy to find, but we did find it, and we didn't see any signs that it was a tourist attraction. I took a picture anyway! That was pretty much the excitement for the weekend as I was still coming down from the cold I had battled. The week wasn't much more exciting until Friday rolled around.

We headed to the "Radio Tower" (the name is Kaknas Tower - literally translated - "Cookie Nose" tower). It is the tallest building in all of Scandanavia and there is a restaraunt at the top. We went up at dinner time, so I was starving and hoping for a good dinner anyway since we had a game on Saturday that I was to play in as it was the first game in the Semi-Finals! Steak and potatoes sounded great....

We found the tower (after crossing across a very large field/park that seems a bit different for what we have seen in Stockholm...), and we took the 30 second ride to the 30th floor to have some dinner. Oh my! The view was spectacular, even though it was a bit cloudy that day. The dinner -- mmm!! YUMMY! I haven't had a "Swedish Steak" before, but it was delicious. The only difference - they put an egg on the top of it. More protein as if the beef doesn't have enough I guess. Whatever the reason, I ate it, and I ate it all because it was so yummy! The evening was definitely romantic and one of the best adventures we have been on I think. Perhaps it's because we didn't have any expectations going into it, but whatever the reason, we really enjoyed it and I'd be happy to go back again.

Saturday was the first game against VAIK in the Semi Finals at their rink. I was told I'd be dressing to play forward and midfield. While this was true, I did dress to play those positions if needed, I did not get to see the ice at all. It was a tight match from beginning to end, so I, being the less talented one of the team I guess, rode the pine for the game. I hope to dress again on Saturday - even if I do ride the pine, it's just great to be a part of the experience. I do think our team will do better against VAIK this coming Saturday though, so the score may have a larger difference and be weighted in favor of us for more of the game so I may get my chance to skate. We ended up tying the game 3-3 in regulation, went into overtime and with the game still 3-3, we went into a shoot out. The 7th shooter for our team finally put one in to win! Whew! 1 game down, 1 more to win before the Finals!

On other news of things I've been keeping busy with - I've entered 2 more contests online. The Adidas one is to win a chance to be a model with Candace Parker for Adidas. The other is for Nike and to win some of their gear. You can vote daily for both of them:



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Nike:
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The Adidas one is tricky - - - when you get to the page - "Skip Intro" is on the right - - - it helps to skip it. Then a purple circle with a white arrow will be in the middle of the screen ---- you can click on that and it will take you to the page. You will have to enter your email address and some other information if it is your first time to the site. Otherwise, log in with your email address, then search for me with my email address: bandychick6@yahoo.com Then you should be able to find me and vote for me that way.

The Nike one --- that one is very direct and simple!

Thanks for all of your support and voting!

KP